‘A Very Bright Light in My Life’: 17-Year-Old With Terminal Cancer Marries Her Best Friend

A 17-year-old Nevada high schooler with terminal brain cancer has married her best friend and, with the support of both their families, is candidly sharing her cancer journey with a growing audience on social media.

Originally from Vernal, Utah, Samantha Clark now lives in Elko, Nevada, with her husband, 18-year-old Brayden Gottfried.

Clark was diagnosed with ependymoma, a form of brain cancer, at two years old. After treatment, she went into remission, but the cancer recurred. Today, Clark has terminal ependymoma that has migrated to her jaw, neck, armpits, and knees,  leaving her wheelchair-bound.

“Brayden has always been a very bright light in my life,” Clark told The Epoch Times. “Before we started dating, I told him everything I had been through, and that there was always a possibility of going back. Two months into our relationship was when I relapsed.”

However, despite the circumstances, Gottfried stuck around.

“We hadn’t even said ‘I love you,’ or kissed for that matter yet when I told him that my cancer was back,” Clark said. “I wouldn’t blame him if he left or he wouldn’t feel comfortable and wanted to just be friends and not continue our relationship further because it was going to be a lot ... [but] he said, ‘No, I’m here, I want to be here.’”

Gottfried said, “I tried to just focus on the positives, because there’s been so much negative in her life.”

During the pandemic, while Clark was with her mom—her caretaker—in Salt Lake City and regularly going for radiation, surgery, and other treatments, Gottfried would be video chatting with her every night.

The young couple had discussed marriage since the beginning of their relationship. When Clark received her terminal diagnosis, they had already been dating for two years.

Clark said: “Neither one of us could stand the thought of not being able to do what we’ve always wanted to do. We wanted to marry each other, and we wanted to experience what it was like living with each other, and all of those things, even though we may not be able to grow old together.”

The couple sought the blessing of their families, Gottfried proposed, and, eventually, they got married.

“Marriage is ... learning each other’s personality even more, our quirks,” Gottfried explained. “It means that we get to spend as much time as we can together. I get to help her and her family out; I’m learning how to take care of her, I’m learning how to be a good person for her, and to help her in as many ways as I can.”

Clark said: “I did eight years of intensive physical therapy. I missed a lot of school. I missed a lot of my childhood ... the biggest break I got in between my treatment was three and a half years.”

However even when she wasn’t doing treatments, every three to six months Clark had to get MRI, PET scans, TPS and bloodwork to make sure that the cancer wasn’t coming back.

Despite all of that, Clark still managed to do high school rodeo, was in a barrel race, has been a rodeo queen, played softball for years, and has done gymnastics, tumbling, and cheering.

“Whenever I had the opportunity to be a kid and didn’t have to worry about cancer, we always used it to the fullest and made every moment count,” she said.

However, now Clark is unable to be so active. Her current symptoms include severe neuropathy, fatigue, nausea, swelling of her face, and shortness of breath. She only has one working lung, sleeps around 18 hours per day, and takes medications for water retention and pain.

Additionally, Clark said she also has a hard time remembering things.

“Sometimes I wake up and I don’t know where I am, or my mom or Brayden will tell me something, and some minutes later I will ask the same question, because I’ve forgotten,” she said. “That’s due to the tumors ... putting pressure on my brain.”

Everybody has questions, Clark said, whether they be about her symptoms, her scars, or her prognosis. She has taken to answer these questions by sharing her cancer journey in raw, real videos.

The teenager sees potential for her platform to change conditions for fellow cancer patients. She said, “Everybody seems super supportive, wanting to know more and learn more ... it’s a very touchy subject, people don’t feel comfortable asking most questions ... if we are going to be able to get the care and funding that we deserve ... it needs to be talked about.”

Despite the severity of Clark’s symptoms, she still thinks fondly of her bucket list. Last January, after finding out her cancer was terminal, she went snowboarding for the very first time with her mom and brothers. In May 2022, the family went to Hawaii’s Big Island for a beach vacation with Gottfried.

Clark dreams of taking an RV to Oregon but is frank about the fact that her bucket list “doesn’t really work anymore,” because her health has been declining quite steadily.

“Everything that feels like home to me is here,” she told The Epoch Times. “There are nurses and doctors that come and see me whenever I need ... all that we can do now is really keeping me comfortable, and making sure that I’m in the least amount of pain, and feeling as good as I can.”

Gottfried said: “I try to just point out the fact that we’re here, we’re together. I try to show her that she has me loving her, and her family that loves her, and that she will always have someone by her side, regardless of the time or day.”